人不能太与人为善,太好说话。别人的尊重是你用实力和态度赢来的,而不是靠你的付出和忍让交换来的。
没有人会记得烂好人的好,只会记得他的烂。被欺负、被看不起,我们都有这样的经验,别退!越退让,别人越是软土深掘,拿出实力反击!
没实力?那就回去练出实力再来反击!而且,你光有自尊没用,你得有足够的实力,你的原则和底线才不容易被忽略和推翻。
People can't be too kind and easy to talk to. Others' respect is won by your strength and attitude, not by your effort and tolerance.
No one will remember the bad good man's good, only his bad. Being bullied and looked down upon, we all have such experience, don't retreat! The more concessions, the more soft soil others dig, come up with strength to fight back!
No strength? Then go back to practice your strength and fight back! What's more, your self-esteem is useless. You have to have enough strength so that your principles and bottom line are not easy to be ignored and overturned.
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